#5. Similar Values and Goals. No money, pretty looks or cooking could ever keep me with a woman more than a common destination. We both have common long term goals: have a happy family, own a business, travel the globe, help other people until we die. We both have common short term goals: get through college, have children and support each others' strengths and weaknesses. This has always given us things to look forward to and reasons outside of sex to treat each other nice.
#4. Sex. I just mentioned this a second ago. A faithful mormon girl would have valued her virtues and held them as sacred. Who cares what the world says about virgins? I say the more of them the better we'd be. This includes the boys as well as the girl virgins out there. Stay true and faithful and abstinent.
#3. Family. The family unit is dissolving in a time when families are most needed. The problems in this world would be better resolved if we thought about what is beneficial for our families (this includes the families of all races, nations and people). We would be stronger people in our jobs, sports and schools if we paid more attention to our families. My "Molly Mormon" pays close attention to our kids and to me; it's one of the values that I admire her for and she wins my heart over it every time.
#2. Money. Almost every home in America will feel the pressures of needed more money this year. Our nations is at its worst financial downturn since the Great Depression. But in our home money is not the most important thing. It wasn't the most important thing when we got married. It wasn't the most important thing when we started having kids. It's not the most important thing as we struggle through a down economy. This doesn't mean we turn a deaf ear to what government is doing with taxpayer money or what we need to be aware of so it can benefit to our savings. This doesn't mean we don't educate ourselves in the language of money. Mormon girls know a thing or two about being frugal and thrifty.
#1. A love for God. Loving God has little to do with being a dictator of hardcore Mormon Law. Instead it has more to do with understanding how to love a man more than herself. The hardest thing to get used to to is loving another person more than you love yourself. And I mean, really loving a person more than yourself. Molly Mormons will have this trait figured out once they can see passed the loftiness of their stake president daddies and when they learn to love the lowest of all God's creatures: the Return Missionary or BYU undergrad.
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